Hooman's Story

Near Life Experience

There is only one way that life is meant to be lived. Life is meant to be lived to the fullest. Some people go through their lives and they just don’t get what the purpose of life is. What these people don’t realize is that life is not a spectator sport, life is for real. You get no second chances in life. If you are living your life as a NEAR LIFE EXPERIENCE, now is the time to change. I love to tell people, “You are not here for a long time, you are here for a great time.” The only person that can create this great life is you.

Its just a choice, that’s all it really is. Do you want to live your life as a NEAR LIFE EXPERIENCE? Or do you want to live your life to the fullest. Most people will say one day I am going to do this, one day I am going to do that. Unfortunately, that one day might never come because life is unpredictable. You can leave the house tomorrow and it all could end in a blink of an eye. Life is just that precious.

Don’t wait for a near death experience to start living. Don’t live as a NEAR LIFE EXPERIENCE. Start living your GREAT LIFE now. Make the rest of your life the best of your life by following these steps.

1. Sing your little heart out when you are alone. Sing as loud as you can in the shower.

2. Dance your way to happiness whenever you get a chance. Dance as crazy as you desire.

3. See the world through your travels. The world is like a great book. Each page is wonderfully different.

4. Understand that true happiness comes from great relationships. Care for others. Care for yourself. Care for your relationships. Care for your decisions. Managing your life carefully will help you avoid becoming a victim to your circumstances.

5. Do something special for the people in your life just because you want to see them smile. Just because you want to show them how much you care. Just because you want to show them how special they really are to you.

6. Remember, the greatest risk, is the one that you don’t take. Opportunities will never go away, they just go to someone else. Be a risk taker.

7. Turn your fear into your fire. The only thing that you have to fear, is fear itself.

8. No journey is impossible. Find a way when others believe there is no way. Its only impossible when you believe its impossible. Remember, you can achieve anything you believe.

9. Learn from your losses. Failure is a wonderful learning experience. Look at your failures as outcomes. If you don’t get the outcome you desire, keep changing your approach until you succeed.

10. Understand that if you want to be great at anything, The formula is very simple. Time + Practice = ACHIEVEMENT. Champions are always made through hard work, practice, and persistence.

11. You are guaranteed to be hurt in your life. Don’t run away from your pain. Fight through your pain. Your nastiest setbacks and defeats in life could lead you to your sweetest triumphs. Everyone in life gets knocked down, but life only rewards those who get back up. Do whatever you can to ease the pain of others if you see them hurting.

12. Understand that you and only you can make the changes in your life that you desire. Nobody else can make those changes for you but you. Be the change you want to see in others.

13. Your attitude is everything. It is a proven fact that those people with a positive mental attitude are more successful in every avenue of their lives. Have a contagious attitude that everyone wants to catch.

14. Your thoughts are everything. Your life will always follow your thoughts. All outcomes and experiences in our lives are a direct result of our thoughts. Make sure you only let the most empowering thoughts enter your precious mind. Power and control over your thoughts and actions will have you achieving the greatest outcomes of your life.

Nelson Mandela said, “No matter where you are in your life, there is always more journey ahead.” Its up to you to make the rest of your life the best of your life. You are the captain of your soul. You are the master of your destiny. Don’t live a NEAR LIFE EXPERIENCE. Live the GREAT LIFE now. Take your passion and make it happen.

Hooman Hamzehloui 2009

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Last week four friends went on a fishing trip in the prime of their lives. After their boat capsized some 35 miles off the coast of Florida, an extensive search began. One of the boaters survived, while the other three have yet to be found. They were enjoying their lives to the very last minute, doing something that they truly loved. I am sure they had no idea that they were going to be enjoying their last fishing trip. I never had the honor of knowing these men, but I truly admire people who live their lives doing what they love.  

I want to dedicate this to all the people who never got a chance to say good bye or I love you to their loved ones, one last time. Please enjoy these 17 steps to living your life right.  

1. Live each day like its your very last day. Not like you have plenty of time, but like its your very last day.  

2. Constantly focus on the best thoughts so you can empower yourself. Don’t waste your precious thoughts on negative thinking. Your thoughts become your reality, that why its imperative that you have power and control over your thoughts.  

3. You can achieve anything you desire if you believe in your abilities to achieve. Never stop believing in yourself. If you ever do, you are done. I don’t care what others believe you can achieve, I only care about what you believe you can achieve. Never Quit, Never Quit, Never Quit… Did I say NEVER QUIT?

4. Look forward to the future with unlimited enthusiasm, excitement, and hope. Never look back, you can’t change the past, what you can change is your future. Remember Henry Ford said, “Win or learn, there is no failure.” 

5. Love everyone and everything in your life. Never forget to tell your loved ones how much you love them every time you walk out the door.  You never know when its going to be your last chance to tell them how much you care.  

6. Don’t hate anyone or anything. Hate is one of the worst emotions in the world and it should be avoided at all cost. Martin Luther King said, “Bless those who curse you.” Remember only positive and empowering thoughts. 

7. Spend your time as wisely as you can. Don’t waste any precious time. Its okay to wait, but make your wait as beneficial as possible. (Read something positive, tell someone you care, call a friend)

8. Your true friends are priceless. Value them, cherish them, and be there for them. Don’t keep giving the wrong friend chances. If someone does you wrong, move on. Wish them well and never look back. They are the ones who are missing out from your great friendship.

9. Never forget your dream. Work as hard as you can when its work time. That means every action you take  during working hours should be getting you closer to manifesting your dreams. You can’t get your wasted time back. So work as wisely as you can while chasing your dream. 

10. When its play time, play as hard as you can. Try to make your life as fun as possible. Having fun in life is priceless. Never forget the inner kid in you. 

11. Happiness comes from within. You are only going to be as happy as you want to be. Don’t hold on to hard feelings. Hold on to happy feelings.

12. Remember that opportunities often come disguised in hardship. Be willing to take good risks because the greatest risk is the one that you don’t take. Remember Opportunities don’t go away, they only go to someone else.  

13. Master your fears. Don’t scare yourself when it comes to your fears. Face your fears with resolve. You will be shocked how easy it is to overcome your fears when you are courageous. 

14. Live with passion and urgency. You are not here for a long time, you are here for a good life. You only live once, live with passion, live with urgency, and make sure you are dripping with enthusiasm. Spread your passion to the world.  

15. Master the art of communication. You will make everyone fall in love with you if you are a master communicator. Barack Obama has shown the world what a master communicator can accomplish with the gift of communication. 

16. Commit yourself to learning something new everyday. Commit to constant and never ending improvement. Be a student of this game called life.

17. You are the master of your destiny, you are the master of your future. You will get the most out of your life if you give your life your all. Don’t live with regret, do what you want, when you want. You are the only person in the world that can make this happen. 

Hooman Hamzehloui 2009 

www.HoomanCan.com