Dream Relationship

Are you in the relationship of your dreams? If the answer is no, you are definitely missing out on one of life’s most precious gifts, the gift of love. Successful relationships don’t happen by accident. Successful relationships happen when the couples involved take the necessary actions to make their love last. Successful relationships require hard work, dedication, commitment, and compromise. Just like everything else in life, the more you put into your relationship, the more you will get out of it.

If you are going to be in a relationship, why not make your relationship the very best that it can be? Why not make your love story extraordinary. Why not give your relationship the essentials of a successful relationship?

Relationship Rules

1. FUN – You must have fun together as a couple. Couples that have fun together, stay    together.

2. RESPECT – Become masters of conflict resolution. No matter who you are or how much you love each other, you are going to experience some differences. Handle your differences peacefully. Always remember to consider your partner’s point of view as well as your own.

3. ROMANCE – Keep the romance alive at all cost. Find out what your partner likes and do what it takes to please them. The more romance in your relationship, the more love you will experience. Keep the romance alive and your love for each other will never die.

4. COMMUNICATION – Successful communication is the key to a successful relationship. The better you communicate with each other, the better your relationship will be. Bad communication is one of the major reasons why relationships often fail. Don’t fail to communicate.

5. FRIENDSHIP – Successful couples are often best friends. Reaching best friend status with your partner will often lead to an incredibly rewarding relationship. It also strengthens the bond between couples by adding more trust and loyalty. Being best friends will make your relationship stronger than ever while increasing your chances of success.

6. TRUST – Never violate the trust of your relationship. Once trust is lost, it is difficult to get trust back. Building trust with your partner will only make your bond stronger. It is imperative you honor the trust in your relationship because if you do, you will always have someone you can count on.

7. JEALOUSY – Never do anything that can make your partner jealous. Jealous partners are hazardous to the success of any relationship.

8. APPRECIATION – Appreciate your partner everyday like they are treasure. Humans crave appreciation. If your partner feels appreciated, they are more likely to keep doing what they did to capture your heart. Keep your love alive by keeping the appreciation alive.

My Relationship is Like

My relationship to Cristina has been magical for the last five years. She is my best friend and we have a blast together. We have been inseparable since day one. The reason my relationship with Cristina has been so incredible is because we have made it that way. I know we both have followed these rules to a successful relationship and I firmly believe that’s exactly why our love has been so rewarding from day 1. If you want to have a special relationship, it is up to you to make it special. Follow these relationship rules and I can assure you that your relationship will be incredible.

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Search For Meaning

Everyone has their own mission in life, their own purpose. What gives me meaning might mean nothing to you. It is critical for you to discover your meaning in this world so you can live your life with passion and purpose. Getting banned from every NBA arena helped me discover my purpose in life. When you discover your meaning in life, you will discover a higher level of inspiration, passion, and determination. When you live with meaning in your life, you will be happier than ever. When you discover your purpose in this world your levels of enlightenment will soar to new levels. Your goals will be easier to achieve. You relationships will get better than ever. You will look forward to a future filled with promise and possibilities. Do you know what the driving force in your life is? Discover your purpose today so the rest of your life can be the best of your life.

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Optimist have four special behaviors that are all learned through practice and repetition. 

Optimists look for the good in every situation. No matter what goes wrong, they always, they always look for something good or beneficial. The interesting thing is that they always seem to find it. 

Optimists always seek the valuable lesson in every setback or difficulty. They believe that difficulties come not to obstruct but to instruct. They believe that each setback or obstacle contains a valuable lesson they can learn and grow from, and they are determined to find it. 

Optimists always look for the solution to every problem. Instead of blaming or complaining when things go wrong, they become action oriented. They ask questions like “What’s the solution? What can we do now? What’s the next step?” 

Optimists think and talk continually about their goals. They think about what they want and how to get it. They think and talk about the future and where they are going rather than the past and where they came from. They are always looking forward rather than backward. 

The bottom line is that it is a proven fact that optimistic people have a much better quality of life in their personal and professional lives. They are happier than the average person and they are use to finding solutions to the challenges that they face. If you are not an optimistic person already, I highly recommend that you urgently work at developing a positive mental attitude because the rewards are incredibly life changing. 
Here is a great link to check out about how you can obtain a positive mental attitude.

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I don’t think there will ever be another entertainer who will grab the world the way Michael Jackson did. Michael Jackson sold 750 million records world wide becoming the number one solo artist of his time. His career was truly extraordinary. Michael Jackson seemed to be larger then life. However, there is no one in the world that is larger than life. Michael Jackson’s family feared he overdosed on morphine On 11/29/1993, Michael Jackson canceled his “Dangerous” worldwide tour and went into seclusion after admitting that pain from a burn injury in 1984 as well as allegations of sexual abuse have caused him to become addicted to painkillers. Jackson said that he began using painkillers after reconstructive surgery for the burn he suffered in 1984 while filming a PepsiCola commercial. 

Alison Boshoff from www.dailymailuk.com reported last month that Jackson was struggling to make even a handful of the rehearsals for the comeback tour which was scheduled for 2010 at the O2 in London. He had been to just two out of more than 45 rehearsals. Those close to Michael claimed that his long-term addiction to painkillers combined with the considerable pressure of attempting a showbusiness comeback – may just have claimed his life. According to Alison Boshoff’s Jackson family source, he was ‘just not able to pick himself up out of the painkiller stupor’ that he was in.

Lisa Marie Presley wrote in her blog the following:

He Knew. Years ago Michael and I were having a deep conversation about life in general.  I can’t recall the exact subject matter but he may have been questioning me about the circumstances of my Fathers Death. At some point he paused, he stared at me very intensely and he stated with an almost calm certainty, “I am afraid that I am going to end up like him, the way he did.” I promptly tried to deter him from the idea, at which point he just shrugged his shoulders and nodded almost matter of fact as if to let me know, he knew what he knew and that was kind of that. 14 years later   I am sitting here watching on the news an ambulance leaves the driveway of his home, the big gates, the crowds outside the gates, the coverage, the crowds outside the hospital, the Cause of death and what may have led up to it and the memory of this conversation hit me, as did the unstoppable tears. A predicted ending by him, by loved ones and by me, but what I didn’t predict was how much it was going to hurt when it finally happened. The person I failed to help is being transferred right now to the LA County Coroners office for his Autopsy. All of my indifference and detachment that I worked so hard to achieve over the years has just gone into the bowels of hell and right now I am gutted. I am going to say now what I have never said before because I want the truth out there for once. Our relationship was not “a sham” as is being reported in the press. It was an unusual relationship yes, where two unusual people who did not live or know a “Normal life” found a connection, perhaps with some suspect timing on his part. Nonetheless, I do believe he loved me as much as he could love anyone and I loved him very much. I wanted to “save him” I wanted to save him from the inevitable which is what has just happened. His family and his loved ones also wanted to save him from this as well but didn’t know how and this was 14 years ago. We all worried that this would be the outcome then. At that time, In trying to save him, I almost lost myself. He was an incredibly dynamic force and power that was not to be underestimated. When he used it for something good, It was the best and when he used it for something bad, It was really, REALLY bad. Mediocrity was not a concept that would even for a second enter Michael Jackson’s being or actions. I became very ill and emotionally/ spiritually exhausted in my quest to save him from certain self-destructive behavior and from the awful vampires and leeches he would always manage to magnetize around him. I was in over my head while trying. I had my children to care for, I had to make a decision. The hardest decision I have ever had to make, which was to walk away and let his fate have him, even though I desperately loved him and tried to stop or reverse it somehow. After the Divorce, I spent a few years obsessing about him and what I could have done different, in regret. Then I spent some angry years at the whole situation. At some point, I truly became Indifferent, until now. As I sit here overwhelmed with sadness, reflection and confusion at what was my biggest failure to date, watching on the news almost play by play The exact Scenario I saw happen on August 16th, 1977 happening again right now with Michael (A sight I never wanted to see again) just as he predicted, I am truly, truly gutted. Any ill experience or words I have felt towards him in the past has just died inside of me along with him. He was an amazing person and I am lucky to have gotten as close to him as I did and to have had the many experiences and years that we had together. I desperately hope that he can be relieved from his pain, pressure and turmoil now. He deserves to be free from all of that and I hope he is in a better place or will be. I also hope that anyone else who feels they have failed to help him can be set free because he hopefully finally is. The World is in shock but somehow he knew exactly how his fate would be played out some day more than anyone else knew, and he was right. I really needed to say this right now, thanks for listening. ~LMP

Millions of people are addicted to painkillers worldwide. Prescription drug addiction is a growing problem. According to the Office of National Drug Policy, emergency room visits resulting from the abuse of painkillers alone has gone up 163% since 1995. 

I had once been in a painkiller stupor’ myself. Read about my addiction right here at How I Changed my Addictions 

Elvis Presley, Jim Morrison, Jimi Hendrix, Marilyn Monroe, and now Michael Jackson have shown the world that no one is larger than life. Imagine the lives these individuals could have led if they were to live drug free? It is time we pay attention to the crisis that is the secretly hidden pain killer addictions of millions of people. Just because it comes from a doctor doesn’t make pain killer use okay. Just because it is found in your families medicine cabinet doesn’t make it okay. It is time we pay extra attention to our family members pain killer addictions. If you know someone who is suffering from this horrible addiction, please get them help. If you don’t know where to turn, you can try Narcotics Anonymous or email me and I will guide you to the right source. I have been pain killer free for almost five years. I can tell you that it wasn’t easy, but I did it. If I did it, anyone can do it. 

I would like everyone to keep the Jackson family in their hearts and prayers. It is not their fault that they didn’t get him help. No one can get help for someone if that person does not want help. I hope they have the strength in the future to talk about this problem to people who are suffering from this addiction so they cannot make the mistake that their beloved Michael made. 

Michael Joseph Jackson 

August 29, 1958 – June 25, 2009

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Just like every guy who ever laid eyes on that poster, it was love at first sight with Farrah Fawcett for me. I don’t know if it was that magical hair, or her mesmerizing smile. Whatever it was about Farrah Fawcett had me in a trance. To me, she was one of the most beautiful ladies I had ever seen. 

When I found out that Farrah had been diagnosed with anal cancer in 2006, I was saddened just like her millions of other fans. In fact, whenever I hear of anyone who is diagnosed with cancer it really touches me because I have lost a few friends to cancer over the years. I have been around various charities like “Kids Beating Cancer” and “The Make a Wish Foundation”. Cancer is an illness that can strike anyone. It affects people from all walks of life. Cancer doesn’t care what your race is, cancer doesn’t care how old you are, or how much money you have or don’t have. I just found out that there is a 10 year old girl who is battling breast cancer. Kids that are 10 years old are not supposed to get breast cancer. If that doesn’t show you that cancer can strike anyone, I don’t know what will. I think we all know someone who has battled this devastating illness. Some people win the battle against cancer, while countless others lose their lives to cancer.

Last Friday I witness a special on NBC called “Farrah’s Story” chronicling her battle with her cancer. Over 9 million people viewed this documentary showing Farrah’s battle with cancer. I am sure it moved everyone the same way it moved me. It showed her facing her illness with incredible resolve and incredible resiliency. Farrah and her friend Alana Stewart documented her battle against cancer over the last three years, giving an inside look to what her battle with cancer has been like. It showed her incredible desire to live. Farrah has exceeded her life expectancy that her doctors had originally given her. I think her miracle of life has been because of her positive attitude and her strong desire to live. I don’t want to give you too many details of Farrah’s Story because I recommend that you see it for yourself. Be prepared to cry because I had tears several times throughout the two hour special and when I wasn’t crying, I was fighting to hold the tears in. It made me fall in love with her all over again. This documentary has to be so inspiring to those who are battling cancer and even for those who are battling issues in their lives. It is not the length of your life that matters, it is the way you live it. 

Many people are battling various issues today that may seem like the end of the world is around the corner. Some people are losing their homes, some people are losing there jobs, while others have lost money to bad investments. What if you were losing your life? What if you were only given a few months to live? How would you act then? Would you care about your car? Would you care about your career? I don’t think so….. If you are among the lucky people of the world who are in good health, be grateful. If you have your health, you can achieve anything you desire. If you have your health, you can accomplish greatness in whatever you choose to do. I know there are some difficult times out there for many people, but how difficult would life be if you had cancer? All the money in the world couldn’t help you. Next time you catch yourself being negative, stop what you are doing and look at the positives in your life. Look at how lucky you are to be healthy. Think about how fortunate you are to be facing the difficulties that you have. Don’t let negative thoughts enter your head. They are terrible for you and your health. Think of all the amazing things that you have going for you. Think about the promise and possibilities that your future holds.

Please watch “Farrah’s Story” for yourself so you can be thankful for the health that you have in your life. Go to her website at http://www.farrahfawcett.us to buy her famous poster. The proceeds go to help fund the fight against cancer. Volunteer at a cancer charity because you can make a difference in the battle that others are facing against cancer. I dedicate this to all those people who are battling cancer, to all those people who have defeated their cancer, and to those who have lost their lives to cancer. May you have peace, love, and happiness. 

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Businesses that create the most value for their clients will most likely be profitable in any economic condition. Creating more value than your competitors will not only attract more clients to your business, but it will also get you more referral opportunities from your happy clients. Being known as the business that offers the best products or services for the least amount of money is a great reputation for any business to have.   

By creating more value for your clients, you will give them the feeling that they got an incredible deal. There have been times in the past when I had paid double for a product because I thought it was a better deal based on my perceived value of the product. 

Henry Ford said, “The man who will use his skill and constructive imagination to see how much he can give for a dollar, instead of how little he can give for a dollar, is bound to succeed.” Don’t think of how little you can offer your clients and get away with it. Think about how much more you can offer your clients. 

Here are a 3 steps to creating more value for your clients.

1. If you don’t take care of your clients, someone else will. Make it your goal to be known as the business that offers their clients the best service available. You don’t want to do business with them just once. You want to do business with them for many years to come. The cheapest way of earning new business is by doing more business with the people that you have done business with in the past. Make sure you create a high level of expectation for your clients so that when you exceed this expectation, you are continuing to impress them as the place that offers the best service. Most businesses will forget about their clients after the sale. For a business that offers incredible service to their clients, it is the beginning of their business relationship. When you take care of your clients, they will take care of you by sending you referrals. 

2. Build brand loyalty by guaranteeing your product. If you have clients who are not satisfied, don’t let them leave your business until they are. Good news travels fast, but bad news travels faster. You don’t want any unhappy clients running around your community. I used to call my clients my sales force because they were so happy with my past performances for them that they would constantly be searching for potential referrals to give me. It almost seemed like it was their obligation to send me referrals. However, I had earned the right to be trusted with their referrals. Remember, you are their to cater to your clients highest expectations. 

3. Make sure that you constantly keep in contact with your clients. Don’t wait for them to call you. Make sure you call them on a regular basis to make sure everything is okay with their purchase. If there is something wrong, you have an opportunity to fix it for them. All this does is reinforce their decision to do business with you. It will also give you an opportunity to keep them informed of your latest products. If they are happy clients, they will usually upgrade their purchase or buy some of your other products. Make sure they understand how to get the highest and best use from your product. Do you know how many people buy products that are so complicated, that they have no idea how to get the most use from them? If your clients don’t know how to use their products, how do you expect them to be happy with their purchase. How do you expect them to feel good about the value of their purchase if they are not benefitting from all of its benefits. People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care. Show them that you are dedicated to providing them outstanding service for many years to come. Make your clients feel that they are your clients for life. 

There are many other ways to create more value for your products. The more value that you create, the better of a deal your clients will feel like they got. Even if your product is double the price of your competitors, if you can create enough value in your clients eyes, you will never have a problem earning their business while you outperform your competitors with ease. 

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What are you Focusing on These Days

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The way I see it, stretching our abilities to achieve outside of our current abilities is just human nature. We all have this wonderful ability to achieve greatness inside of us. Although not everyone is tapping into this unlimited potential to achieve greatness because they don’t believe in their abilities to achieve. Somewhere along the line they might have failed at something and decided that achieving greatness was not in their abilities. Or maybe someone in their family has been consistently telling them that they can’t do this, or they can’t do that. Never forget one of the best quotes of all time by Henry Ford, “Whether you believe you can, or whether you believe you can’t, you are right.” You and only you are the one who can decide whether you can achieve greatness or not. You are the creator of your future. The million dollar question is, what kind of future do you want for yourself? 

If you want to achieve greatness, stretching your abilities is something you will have to get comfortable with. Remember, you can achieve anything you desire if you truly believe that you can achieve the outcome that you desire. You will have to challenge yourself because you are trying to achieve something that is outside of your current abilities. Achieving greatness is never going to be easy to achieve. In fact, it might be one of the most difficult challenges of your life. You have to be prepared to for a struggle. You have to be committed to your success. If you are thinking of failure even being a possibility, you are destined to fail. If you believe that success is your only option, you will succeed. Don’t believe in failure, because failure is only an outcome. If you don’t get the outcome that you desire, keep changing your approach until you succeed. Remember the great words of Socrates, “Stepping stones or stumbling blocks,  how do you look at failure?” Remember the great words of Henry Ford, “Win or learn, there is no failure.” 

Challenge yourself today to achieve something that is outside of your current abilities. Get excited about your goals. Get excited about your life. Live with passion and urgency. I have a dream, and it is a deeply rooted dream. What is your dream? Are you taking the necessary actions to achieve your dream? If not, get on the right path today so you can get to the promise land of success. I know you have it in you. Make it happen now. 

Check out “11 Steps to Achieving Greatness” for more great tips on how to get the results that you desire.  

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