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Tiger Woods And Michael Phelps Just Win A Little Different

Friday, August 29th, 2008

Have you ever ask yourself, “I wonder what drives Tiger Woods to be the best?” Or “How in the world did Michael Phelps really dominate every event during the Olympics?” Winning doesn’t happen by accident. Winning is a way of life. Winners look at each day as an opportunity to challenge themselves to get better. Winners have a special passion for life because they create their own futures. Winners ask themselves empowering questions like, “What am I going to do today that is going to make a difference in my life?” “What do I need to do to overcome this challenge?” Or “What did I learn from this outcome that is going to make me better prepared for my future attempts at this challenge?” Winning isn’t everything, but wanting to win is. When you win something, it is truly an amazing feeling. That feeling of achievement is what champions need to feel pleasure. Champions are driven by their desire to be #1. If they don’t win, they will feel pain, because the agony of defeat is unacceptable for a champion. That is why all champions have a burning desire to win. It is that sensation of winning that makes them so competitive. Champions are driven by their desire to achieve greatness. Tiger Woods passion for winning is truly unmatched, he is one driven champion that is chasing history to become the best golfer ever. His determination is unbreakable because he can elevate his game at anytime to beat any challenger. Michael Phelps eight gold medals during the 2008 Summer Olympics in Bejing was another terrific performance from a determined champion who believed he couldn’t be stopped. Michael broke Mark Spitz’s 36 year old record of seven gold medals. Leading up to the events, he kept hearing the critics say that there was no way possible that he could win eight gold medals. Michael Phelps used those nonbelievers for extra motivation to prove them wrong because he was going to win and there was nobody who was going to get in his way. Develop a winning attitude like Tiger Woods and Michael Phelps. Success leaves clues so study these champions because there is so much you can learn from these two winners. You should never try to do anything unless you are going to give it your very best. Life is kind to winners, so no matter what you are doing in life, always give it your best shot. Go out there and lay it on the line because “today is the day.”

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Martin Luther King’s “I Have A Dream” video

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

Here is the complete video as Martin Luther King delivers to the world his “I have a dream” speech from in front of the Lincoln Memorial. Enjoy.

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Martin Luther King told the world he had a dream 45 years ago.

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

Martin Luther King delivered this amazing speech right in front of the Lincoln Memorial. It is one of my favorite speeches of all time. It is so empowering, that no matter how many times I hear it, it always gives me the chills. Look how far we have come today. Would Martin Luther King be proud? His legacy will last forever in history books all over the world. As one of the greatest speakers of all time, he is one of my inspirations.

martin luther king2 Martin Luther King told the world he had a dream 45 years ago.

Please enjoy this amazing speech.

I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.

Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.

But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languished in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. And so we’ve come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.

In a sense we’ve come to our nation’s capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the “unalienable Rights” of “Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.” It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note, insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked “insufficient funds.”

But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. And so, we’ve come to cash this check, a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice.

We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of Now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quicksands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God’s children.

It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro’s legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. And those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. And there will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.

But there is something that I must say to my people, who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice: In the process of gaining our rightful place, we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred. We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again, we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force.

The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. And they have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom.

We cannot walk alone.

And as we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead.

We cannot turn back.

There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, “When will you be satisfied?” We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the negro’s basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self-hood and robbed of their dignity by a sign stating: “For Whites Only.” We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until “justice rolls down like waters, and righteousness like a mighty stream.”¹

I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. And some of you have come from areas where your quest — quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive. Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed.

Let us not wallow in the valley of despair, I say to you today, my friends.

And so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.

I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal.”

I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia, the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.

I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.

I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of “interposition” and “nullification” — one day right there in Alabama little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, and every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight; “and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed and all flesh shall see it together.”²

This is our hope, and this is the faith that I go back to the South with.

With this faith, we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith, we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith, we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.

And this will be the day — this will be the day when all of God’s children will be able to sing with new meaning:

My country ’tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing.

Land where my fathers died, land of the Pilgrim’s pride,

From every mountainside, let freedom ring!

And if America is to be a great nation, this must become true.

And so let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire.

Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York.

Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania.

Let freedom ring from the snow-capped Rockies of Colorado.

Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California.

But not only that:

Let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia.

Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee.

Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi.

From every mountainside, let freedom ring.

And when this happens, when we allow freedom ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God’s children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual:

Free at last! Free at last!

Thank God Almighty, we are free at last!

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Orlando Sentinel reports about once disgraced Magic fan, Hooman Hamzehloui

Monday, August 25th, 2008

Here is the story from the Orlando Sentinel.

Hooman err leads to life of inspiration
Mike Bianchi
SPORTS COMMENTARY
August 10, 2008
Seven words nearly ruined his life.

Seven stinking words.

“Hey, Dikembe, you look like a monkey!”

“I never knew seven words could lead to so much ugliness,” says Hooman Hamzehloui.

You probably don’t recognize the name; you just know him as the racist fan who was banned by the NBA and the Orlando Magic for a full season after a heckling incident two years ago.

This is a story about how the worst night of Hooman’s life turned into the best thing that ever happened to him. It’s a story about how his heckling and harassing words turned into inspirational and invigorating ones. It’s a story my old high school coach would have loved because he used to tell us this about the game of football and the game of life: “You’re going to fall. Just make sure you fall forward.”

Hooman has certainly done that since the transcendent moment in October 2006 when he transformed from obnoxious heckler into a motivational speaker.

Two years ago, Hooman owned a big-time real estate company, four luxury cars and an opulent home in a gated Windermere community. He was high-rolling Magic fan, held in such high regard by the team that he was chosen to host a season-ticket selling party for other well-heeled corporate types. Magic players and officials attended the party.

“One of the greatest nights I can ever remember,” he says.

Just 24 hours later, he would endure the worst night he could ever imagine. He attended the Magic’s home game against Houston and sat in his usual seats on the front row right by where the visiting team comes onto the court.

He says he never drank or cursed at games, but he was a master heckler who always peppered opposing players with derisive nicknames. When Atlanta’s Josh Childress would come to town, Hooman always called him “Urkel” because of his resemblance to the geeky ’80s sitcom character. And when there were dead times during games, fans around him would urge Hooman to stand up and start his heckling act.

Like so many sports zealots, being a wacko fan became his alter-ego, his release, his fix. But everybody knows a fix can destroy you if you don’t control it.

“Hey, Dikembe, you look like a monkey!”

When those seven words came out, everything changed. In two seconds, he went from good-natured heckler to hate-filled racist. Dikembe Mutombo, a 7-foot-2 black man from the Congo, gave Hooman the finger and had to be restrained.

Hooman was escorted away, but he thought he’d be back the next game. He never dreamed he’d be banned for a year and become the poster child for racism in sports.

Maybe it’s a cultural divide (Hooman was born in Iran and came to this country when he was a kid), but to this day Hooman claims he didn’t know “monkey” was a racially offensive term.

“I had no idea why everybody was so upset,” Hooman says. “I was just trying to have some fun with Mutombo.”

But the fallout was heavy and immediate. The NBA, coming off the infamous Detroit-Indiana brawl between fans and players, was cracking down on unruly fans. And even though Hooman immediately issued a written apology, the NBA banned him for a season.

“I take full responsibility for what I said,” Hooman says now, “even though I really didn’t know what I was saying.”

He got death threats and hate mail. Friends quit calling. His two young children came to him and said, “Daddy, what did you say to Mutombo?”

His business went into the toilet even more so than most real estate businesses. Word got around. There was one anonymous comment posted on a real estate Web site urging buyers not to use Hooman as a realtor because he is “scam artist, a racist and an Iranian who . . . sends his money to fund terrorism.”

“I felt like I had become public enemy No. 1,” Hooman says.

With his reputation destroyed, he endured months of depression, spending most of his time sleeping in bed or lying on the couch.

Then one day, after a friend urged him to read a motivational book, he decided he would turn the biggest negative he has ever faced into the biggest positive. He’d always wanted to be a motivational speaker, but he never had the guts to try. Until now.

Prisoners, school children, corporate executives — he’ll talk to anybody who will listen. He has a motivational Web site, www.HoomanCan.com. He’s finishing a book — Mutombo and Me — about his life-altering experience and says he will donate a big portion of the proceeds to Mutombo’s foundation, which was set up to improve health care and fight disease in the Congo.

“I’m glad the incident happened,” Hooman says now, “because I feel better about my life than I ever have.”

Helping instead of heckling.

Inspiring, not inciting.

Maybe it’s time to move past those seven ugly words and remember seven more beautiful ones that we should all make part of our vocabulary.

“To err is Hooman,” somebody wise once wrote, “to forgive divine.”

Mike Bianchi

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Champions Made straight C’s On These Subjects

Friday, August 22nd, 2008

Can – I know I can. Whether you believe you can or whether you believe you can’t you are right. Always believe you can no matter what others believe. If Hoomancan than everyone can.

Challenges - are opportunities to make yourself better. Challenge a challenge with the best of your game. When John F. Kennedy said, “ We must not do things because they are easy, but we must do things because they are hard.” This challenge was issued to the nation when he wanted to take us to the moon. When these heros they sometimes called astronauts, stretched their abilities to do the unbelievable, they showed us that the true human potential is only as good as the imagination. They believed it, they achieved it. These astronauts were unbelievable and so are you. Step up to the challenge, and make it happen. You are a go getter, so go get it now.

CommitmentCommitments are a beautiful part of your daily life. Yet it is up to us to keep our commitments beautiful. When you make a commitment to your loved ones, keep it. When you make a commitment in the business world, keep it. When you make a commitment to yourself, keep it. Never let your commitments down.

Competition - Competition is healthy for you to get better. Always challenge better competition because they will bring out the best. Your learning curve will be much faster as well. The best compete against history and their own high expectations when they have beat all of their competitors. Look at Michael Phelps and Tiger Woods as perfect examples.

Concentration – Make sure your concentration is always on the task at hand. When doing anything in life, it is so easy to get distracted, but those of us who can concentrate with our undivided attention will always make things easier for ourselves.

ConfidenceConfidence is a state of trust with your abilities. I always was confident in myself, knowing that I would either win or learn, because I didn’t believe in failure.

Conviction – My conviction is my strongest commitment to my beliefs. Conviction is the state of being convinced.

Constant and Never Ending Improvement - What is your commitment to canei? You must always strive to be better by the day. Win or learn, there is no failure.

Courage - Courage is your ability to conquer fear. Control your fears and turn them into the power to overcome. Courage is something you must have in your life.

Achievements are not accidents. They are the results of your efforts. Don’t hold anything back. Make sure you lay it on the line each and every day. That way you know you gave it your very all. Make sure you get these straight C’s on your next report card.

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Now Is Not The Time To Take The Tranquilizing Drug Of Gradualism.

Thursday, August 21st, 2008

Its your life, and its now or never. Hurry up and start enjoying your life now. Do what makes you happy, not what makes others happy. Hurry up and do it, what are you waiting for? I see so many miserable people who do things because it will make someone else happy. It is imperative that you are happy, so you can make the people that you love happy. Making the people that you love happy is what life is all about, but you can only do that if you are feeling awesome and empowered yourself. The people that love you will always understand you, because if they really love you, they will always want what is best for you, and not what is best for them. Stay away from anyone that is negative, and I mean that. Stay away from them like they have the plague, I don’t care if they are in your family or not. Your family can be incredibly encouraging or incredibly demoralizing. So if you know any spirit snipers, get out of their aim immediately.

Take Control Now Or You Will Be Just Like Them

Take control of your life now because happiness comes from within, so it is already inside of you. We all have it inside of us, but it is entirely up to us to bring it out. I have been extremely happy and I have tried being miserable. I can assure you that being extremely happy is way better, take my word on this one. Hurry up and start enjoying every moment of each and every day.  Life is hard by the yard, so break down your life into moments and days. Start being happy today, not tomorrow.  Look at the beauty of your future and all of your desired outcomes. I know if you were to start achieving your desired outcomes now that you would be happier than you ever have been. Imagine how awesome that would make you feel? Do you enjoy feeling awesome and achieving your desired outcomes? If you enjoy feeling awesome and making all of your desired outcomes true, when do you think would be the best time to get started? Now is the time. You are the master of your destiny. You are the creator of your outcomes. By taking total control of your thoughts and actions, you will empower yourself to make anything you want happen. Start taking action now, don’t wait. Moment by moment and day by day, you are the designer of your life. Cherish every moment of every day because life is your stage and it is show time, so light up the stage with your passion. Give life your best performance because the show called life is always going to go on whether you are happy or you are sad. Hurry up and do it because today is the day to make your dreams come true. Hurry up and do it because you never know when time is up. Just remember, today is the day, hurry up and seize it.

Hooman Hamzehloui 2008

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What does your service sell?

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008

I want to tell you that awesome service sells. People pay top dollar for anything as long as they get the proper service while they do business with you. Places like a Ritz Carlton Hotel will charge an arm and a leg for their services. You feel like you are a King of a small country because they blow you away with service and hospitality. People love to feel good about the things they are doing in their lives. If you can make them feel important you will get everything you want from your life. I am not talking phony service, I am talking about genuine service from your heart. Everyone in the world wants to feel important, so make them feel that way. Whether its your children or its your coworkers, make them feel like royalty. In one of my favorite books “How To Win Friends And Influence People it says,” If some people are so hungry for a feeling of importance that they actually go insane to get it, imagine what miracle you and I can achieve by giving people honest appreciation this side of insanity.” If you help everyone get what they want you will have everything that you want, so service them with a smile on your face and love in your heart. Remember, It’s nice to be important, but it’s more important to be nice. Treat everyone like loyalty and you will get the same treatment in return. Give the highest and best service to your clients that you are capable of and they will be your clients for life. If you don’t take care of your clients, someone else will. Cater to their highest expectations and as you do just remind them to not keep you a secret because you love referrals.

Hooman Hamzehloui 2008

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Phelps wins eight gold medals to beat 36 year old record.

Saturday, August 16th, 2008

Eight gold medals, I repeat eight gold medals by American super swimmer Michael Phelps. Wow, I am absolutely speechless. I thought Mark Spitz’s 36 year old record would last forever. However, you can never hold back greatness.

 Phelps wins eight gold medals to beat 36 year old record.

Photograph by : AFP/Getty

How in the world do you explain such greatness? I bet if I could ask Michael himself, he would say something along these lines. Well Hooman, I knew that I could do it, nobody was going to beat me because I was not going to let anything get in the way of my dreams of breaking Mark Spitz’s 36 year old record. I have been training extra hard to achieve this, by going above and beyond my regular training regiment so I could win eight gold medals. This has been my dream since the games in Athens. My burning desire to succeed, backed by my intense training would definitely be the secret to my success. I just feel like I can achieve anything I set my mind to. Michael Phelps tied the record Saturday by barely beating Serbia’s Milorad Cavic by the slimmest margin in swimming — .01 seconds. I am so honored to be watching this greatness because I am going to learn everything that I can about Michael Phelps and apply it to my life. Success leaves clues, so do anything you can to duplicate this guys patterns of success. How long will it be before someone beats Michael Phelps record breaking eight gold medals? He has fourteen total gold medals to his illustrious career. I know we will be talking about his greatness for years to come. Michael Phelps, Thank you for showing us that the human potential of achieving is entirely up to our burning desires to make it happen.

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Phelps wins seventh Beijing gold medal. Talk About Good

Saturday, August 16th, 2008

American Swimmer Michael Phelps has just won his seventh Beijing gold medal. Can you believe this guy? Success leaves clues, so find out the Michael Phelps difference and mirror this achiever exactly. One can learn so much when one studies from the best. Talk about amazing. This guy inspires me whenever I hear his name. He is the standard of excellence. I will never forget when I was a little boy watching the Olympics for the first time. The very first story that my dad told me about was the story of Mark Spitz and his seven medals. From that point on, whenever I thought of Olympic greatness, I thought of Mark Spitz and his seven gold medals. That association of Olympic greatness has a new face for me. Michael Phelps is an achiever extraordinaire, he is on a mission and nothing can stop him. Find out what he is doing and bottle it. When this young man’s professional career ends one day he will leave a lasting legacy as the greatest swimmer ever. What has been your favorite Michael Phelps moment of these Summer games? How long do you think it will be before another champion like Phelps comes along? Look forward to hearing more about this achiever as I discover his competitive edge.

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Change Your Life By Changing You.

Thursday, August 14th, 2008

Changing your life starts by changing you first. I can tell you that it is never too late to make a change. Anyone can start living the life of their dreams when they believe that change is a must. Anyone can make a change if they believe that their change must start now and not tomorrow. Change starts by resetting your mind and getting rid of every negative and limiting beliefs that you previously had. It doesn’t matter where you have been in the past, it only matters where you are going in the future. Your future depends on your outlook and how bright you view the days that are ahead of you. Change takes time, but change starts the minute that you desire a better life for yourself. Your friends can’t desire your changes, you and only you can be the catalyst for your change. There are going to be people that will want to see you fall on your face.  Don’t go to their poison party by confronting them with a confrontation, you are better than that. Show them that you are committed to your change by making your dreams a reality. Show them that you are committed to constant and never ending improvement. If you find yourself thinking of someone who has been bad to you in the past, make sure you end that thought with a positive note as you pray for their good fortune. People will often be negative about the changes you desire because they are jealous of you. People will often try to put you down because they are not happy with where they are in their own lives. Turn this negative energy into a positive force as you fuel your burning desire to succeed. Don’t let anyone get in the way of your change because they say you can’t. They will want to discourage you because they don’t have your courage to make a change in their lives so they will put you down because it will make them feel better about themselves. You are the only person who is in charge of your outcomes. It doesn’t matter what people say about you, it matters what you think about you. Whether you believe you can or whether you believe you can’t, you are right. Show the world your abilities to achieve because you can do anything you set ought to do. You are the creator of your future so it is up to you to design your life exactly the way you want your life to be. Empower yourself to make a lasting change so you can inspire others to follow in your foot steps. You can make a difference in the world with your positive thoughts and actions but it isn’t going to happen unless you want it to happen. Your change starts with you, so start changing now so you can make your dreams come true.

Hooman Hamzehloui 2008

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