Hooman's Story

Don’t Worry Be Happy.

Do you remember when you were your happiest? What were your thoughts like when you were your happiest? What were your feelings like when you were your happiest? Happiness comes from within, so whenever we are not feeling good, it is up to you to flip the happy switch and come back to the place Adam Sandler calls “Happy place.” “Happy place” is that state of mind where everything is perfect. You are on cloud nine and nothing can bring you down. You are what you think so condition your thoughts to only think of the most desirable outcomes. However, in todays world, that is easier said than done, because sometimes even the most positive people have bad thoughts. Bad thoughts equal bad feelings. It is extremely important to be aware of your thoughts so they don’t turn into bad feelings. Negative thoughts can take over your mind and body leading to depression. If you find yourself not feeling good you must instantly change your thoughts to trigger your happy switch. Good thoughts equal good feelings. Good thoughts can instantly empower you to change your feelings. You must know what your thought changers are. Your thought changers must be thoughts you can instantly think of that will change your state of mind to one that is of peak performance and of peak pleasure. My thought changers are my two kids, my partner, my family, etc. When I think of them it instantly changes my state to a state of pleasure. It is impossible to feel bad when you are having good thoughts. Why in the world would you want to go around feeling miserable when you can feel awesome? I feel so bad when I see someone who is clearly miserable because I just wish they could feel the way I feel. I have tried misery and happiness and I can assure you that I prefer being happy. Why am I so happy? I thought you would never ask. I am so happy now because for the first time in my life I feel truly successful. I finally know what is important to me in my life. To me, life is about being grateful for everything you have, like your health and your family. Life is about being thankful for those heros who made sacrifices so you and I could enjoy freedom everyday. Life is about being in total control over your thoughts and actions so there is no longer a limit to your happiness. I used to think that material things made me happy. I was wrong because they would only give me temporary happiness. All this did was make me want more and more. Don’t get me wrong, I still love the finer things in life but that isn’t what is the driving force in my life. Before my depression I used to constantly pursue materialistic things for myself and my family. Now the materialistic things don’t mean nearly as much as they use to. What matters to me the most now is that everyone around me is as happy as they possibly can be. What matters to me is that I am trying to make a difference in the world. What matters to me is that I am inspiring people to make a change in their lives. Empowering people to make all of their hopes, goals, dreams, and desires come true is making all of my dreams come true. I am happier now than I ever have been and I owe it all to the way that I think now. If you don’t like something about yourself than make a change. If you don’t like something that is wrong with the world, make a change. You can trigger a force from within you to do amazing things. There is a powerful force that is inside of you but it must be unleashed. Don’t get in the way of your abilities because you are not feeling good about yourself. Now is the time to turn on your happy switch and leave it on for good because you are the only person that can. Look at the person in the mirror and be grateful for everything you have. Life is short but it is up to you to make it sweet. Never let a negative thought in your precious mind again. If you notice your feelings are not good you must trigger your happy switch and take control of your thoughts and feelings. You are what you think so control your thoughts to manifest the life of your dreams. You are in total control of your future when you are in control of your thoughts. Empower yourself to get the desired outcomes you have always wanted so you can be as happy as you want to be.

Hooman Hamzehloui 2008

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What are your why questions that you consistently ask yourself daily? Every day people communicate with their subconscious minds asking themselves why questions. Why, why, why, over and over again. The quality of your why questions are going to be the difference in the quality of your life. What separates the best from the rest is the words that comes after their why questions. Many people daily ask themselves limiting questions like, “Why me?” Or, “Why does this always happen to me?” For the most part these same people ask themselves negative questions all day long as they slowly sabotage their lives. What they don’t realize is their subconscious mind is answering that question with a lot of negative responses. The winners of the world ask themselves empowering questions that get empowering responses back to their minds. This makes them feel passionate about their lives. They believe they can do anything if they just put their minds to it. The quality of your life is going to come down to the quality of your why questions. Never ask yourself the following questions.

1. Why me?

2. Why does this always happen to me?

Just take those two questions out of your question bank and donate them to Dr. Evil.

The only questions that you need to ask yourself are the strongest, most empowering questions.

Questions like.

1. Why not me?  If a human being is doing it than so can I. I can achieve anything I believe if I just put my mind to it. Convince yourself you can do it. Failure will never be an option because if you are getting the same results, you are just going to keep changing your action plan until you get the results you desire. Success leaves clues, so if you know someone that is getting the results you are looking for, just duplicate and model everything about them.

2. Why do I want to …….? I always wrote down why I wanted something on paper. I would read it to myself in the morning and at night before I went to bed. This would burn it into my subconscious mind which would then empower my body to take action.  I would write down all of my what’s and why’. This would empower me to make it happen.

I want to challenge you to make the rest of your year, the best of your year. Write down a mid year action plan of what you want, why you want it, and how your life will be when you make it happen. Write this down and read it twice a day until it becomes your reality. Make sure you do not waste a single moment on any negative thoughts or actions. Only take the necessary actions towards achieving your desired outcomes. Now is the time to stretch your abilities to their peak because if you do, your dreams for the year will come true. Share your action plans with your family and the public so you get even more inspired and committed to your desired outcomes. Ask yourself, “Why not you?”

Hooman Hamzehloui 2008

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This is dedicated to all the hard working parents out there. I want to dedicate this to my children who are my inspiration. I came across Father Forgets by W. Livingston Larned over ten years ago when I read How To Win Friends & Influence People which is my all time favorite book. If you haven’t read it already this is a must have book for your library. I became a father when I was twenty two and I left my how to be a dad handbook at the hospital. I became a single dad five years later with the privilege of having 50/50 custody with my beautiful kids. Over time I got my kids more and more. I almost have them all the time now and when I am not with them I wish I was. I wish I knew then what I know now but my parenting became so much easier when I read Father Forgets for the first time. (more…)

I have lived in america since I was one. I have always considered how my life could have been so different if my parents had not taken the risk of trying to have a better life for my brother and i. I have loved the freedoms that this great country has given me. My life has truly been blessed. I can’t even begin to tell you how lucky i feel to be in this great country. However, i’m hearing how this country has changed, i don’t think the country has changed i think that we have changed as people. I keep hearing how this country isn’t what it used to be. All i hear is how bad life is now because of the gas crisis. I keep hearing the economy is in trouble, this country is in trouble, we are in a recession and the sky is falling, antarctica is melting, and the real estate market sucks. That is just nonsense. This country is the greatest place on earth. What has changed is the quality of our thoughts. The country has stayed the same, it is the people that have changed.
You need to run when you hear negativity like that. (more…)

There is so much competition in the world today that you must truly stand out to your clients if you want to be successful. If your performance is not unforgettable you might as well stay at home because you are not getting paid. When you are at your job you owe it to yourself to give it your very best performance. Right before I would meet my clients I would clap my hands really hard and say to myself, “Show Time.” Clapping my hands would instantly change my mindset to think that I was on stage and my clients were my VIP audience. “Show time” meant that my only worry in the world was taking care of my clients needs so I could cater to their highest expectations. (more…)

I don’t know about you but I tried depression and I didn’t like it as much as I loved feeling good. I learned first hand how quick a depression could suck the life out of anyone, even me. The shocking thing was the darkest days of my life came when I was at the pinnacle of my life. I was the best Orlando Magic fan that I could possibly be since 1989. Over the years I got to know several players from Shaq down to Hedo Turkoglu which only made me love the Magic even more. Watching the Magic play with Cristina was one of my favorite things to do. I sat front row for three years and I can’t tell you how much that did for my career and status in the community. (more…)

How many times did you change your minds growing up? If you were anything like me it could have been a few hundred different careers by the time you reached adulthood. I wanted to be a soldier, ninja, fire fighter, cop, Doctor, Superman, and Prince. I could go on all day because I constantly wanted to be something else. People kept telling me from a very young age that I was a “born salesperson.” I always loved it, When I found out that I was born a boy and not a salesperson I was certainly disappointed. All these years I thought I was a born salesperson but to my disappointment we are all created equal, even Tiger Woods wasn’t playing golf until he was nine month old. (more…)

The people alive today have the greatest opportunities ever known to man. With the internet our lives have changed forever. People have become overnight millionaires from nowhere. Who knows what the future will look like and what kind of technologies will be available to us? The sky is no longer the limit because we will be going to space on our family vacations instead of Maui. Now is the time to dream bigger than you ever have. Think of something today and your life can change tomorrow. You can achieve anything you believe. Design your life as if you knew there was no chance of failure. I challenge you to get the best out of your life by creating your future without any limitations to what you can achieve. (more…)